Archive for Desember, 2009

Desember 16, 2009

1. Creative people have a great deal of physical energy, but they’re also often quiet and at rest.

I agree with the opinion above, some creative people need time to calm down, calm and silent for a moment. In the period of “calm” this is the creative people think and pour the thoughts. A clear mind and apart from the stress, routines and other activities, can produce things creative. Therefore, although the creative people who have great energy, often calm down to think creatively.

2. Creative people tend to be smart yet naive at the same time

I am confused with this opinion, but creative people tend to be not a smart person; although not denying that there are also people who are creative and smart. It’s a creative person is not usually the same as ordinary people. I often find the creative people who “Naive”, which they did not flaunt his creative power to others.

3. Creative people combine playfulness and discipline, or responsibility and irresponsibility

I agree with this opinion. Creativity can arise if we are in good condition. Only a few people who can combine playfulness and discipline proportions are balanced. People like this can produce creative thoughts. They’re not too stressed because of high routine, and not too relaxed in the play.

4. Creative people alternate between imagination and fantasy and a rooted sense of reality

Creative people usually start thinking with an imagination. With a limited imagination and the barriers that prevent people in thinking freely, making a lot of people who are not creative, and tend to be followers / audience than the people who succeed with his creativity. So that the creative minds should start from the imagination.

5. Creative people trend to be extroverted and introverted

Similar to the Mihaly opinion of number 1, where creative people tend to be quiet and a loner at certain moments, namely when he thought and imagination. But they are not always alone, they can adjust the balance between hanging out or socializing and silent.

6. Creative people are humble and proud at the same time

I agree with the above opinion, this is because Most creative people do not show explicitly the power or their ability. But when they took out of his ability, people who look to be struck.

7. Creative people, to an extent, escape rigid gender role stereotyping

I am really confused with this opinion, but creative people usually think “out of the box”, so most of them are not rigid and fixed to the circumstances or the situation now. Creative people are not easily influenced by stereotypes, gender stereotypes that say that men should work and tend to be controlled as head of household, and women should only be busy in the kitchen.They do not yield to what they say. But they have a style, way, and individual tastes that distinguish them from ordinary people.

8. Creative people are both rebellious and conservative

I agree with these opinions. Creative people are not fixed and static in a situation, they always break through and penetrate the boundaries of existing. Creative people do not tend subject to the regulations. But in a break out of state, creative people are not too far, they remain on the conservative path, although not subject to the ways that conservative.

9. Most creative people are very passionate about their work, yet they can be extremely objective about it as well.

I agree with this opinion, this is because creative people are enthusiastic and excited about the job he loved. However, creative people who do not fanatic and hyperbole to work it.
10. Creative people’s openness and sensitivity often exposes them to suffering and pain, yet also to a great deal of enjoyment

This opinion is for me a little confusing, but the creative spirit that is open and sensitive can result in 2 things for them. The first is that they can experience suffering and pain that hurts.However, they also get the joy and enjoyment in large amounts in their souls.

In conclusion, I think the 10 paradoxes expressed by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi is the result of a very good analysis and very useful for those who try to be creative. If seen from the above statements, then the creative people do not see the world only a 2-sided, the world is not limited to black or white, good or bad, and the left or right. But not limited to this world.


Confused,,, Which one that should I choose ??

Desember 15, 2009

I have the problem of love. 🙂

please help me, who should I choose?

First, she was the PM, my first love, the truth until now I still love her. but I do not know what she feels the same way I feel, what I approach for 5 years could diminish her hard heart.

She remains like a young girl with pure and innocent heart. She does not forget consideration for others, and tries to be kind without putting any pressure to the other person. She tends to be very dependent on people around her, and therefore she is able to adapt to new environment quite easily. Nevertheless, she will have many ups and downs experience in her life. She is not a weak type; where she can show perseverance and aggressiveness. I think she tends to be stubborn, and not easily show her real feelings. She also tends to be calculative, and are sensitive to profit and loss. She can make shrewd decisions concerning money.

When she doesn’t get her way, she can be sultry and feel sorry for herself. She has lots of friends and are a very sociable person. However she tends to feel lonely easily and lack independence. She can show great talent through learning from her own experience in the society, rather than from school education. She will be able to follow a successful life by first taking an assistant kind of job, and then later starting her  own business.

After getting married, she will be able to run her house extremely well. She may become too obsessed with her children’s education. Her type of people tends to choose either being a housewife or your career.

The second is the DHA, this time she was my girlfriend. I also really love her, our relationship has entered 15 months, but I felt not like a good relationship, this relationship as affectionate direction, where I just feel wonderful that this relationship, she is very cool, tend not to care about me, just self-centered and her world. she is very embarrassed if I went and met in front of her friends.

She can show rich affection and possess warm motherly tenderness. She is not cautious person, and is passionate enough to express herself openly to lead life. She tends to be hard on herself, but she is kind and devoted to other people. She prefers to have a career, and play an active part in the society. She possesses strong self-confidence and beliefs. She puts her passing ideas immediately into action.

Therefore she gives an impression of daring and person with strong driving force. She doesn’t bargain so much, and the way in which she act according to her instinct and passion gives feminine attraction. She uses her endless dreams as driving force. Once she decides on something, she is extremely determined to complete it, and doesn’t care about the public opinions.

It may be good for her to have some kind of modesty and self-examination. She has great artistic and beauty sense. She mays be suited to have a career as a fashion designer or interior coordinator. She tends to please everyone besides your family. Towards her own family, she is hard and nagging.

When she gets married, she will turn out as a wife who takes control of the household.

I’m getting confused with a statement of my own! 🙂

How does the character of “Bramantio Prastyaji” ??

Desember 15, 2009

Bramantio Prastyaji is a full name of “Aji”.

Aji can be symbolized as Black koala, where he is cheerful, amiable and youthful.

But, I lack activeness and prefer to be on his own.

I’m not good at taking leadership and to take initiative. I react after carefully considering the action and I’m convinced. Even if I am asked my opinion, I do not speak from heart and I don’t give out my opinions.

I think I am acting cool, but people around me think I’m eerie.
I can not stand to hurt others or get hurt myself, so I tend to be nice to others.
I have a sharp instinct and when having an argument, I try to develop the argument by reading the other person’s minds. By doing so, I have an effectively to make my point. Both cautiousness and timidity reside in my mind.

If I rely too much on first instinct, my action may be haphazard. Nevertheless, I tend to be strong-minded, and will put in all my effort, even if I upset my health.
I am indifferent to new something, but I was able to adapt well and quickly in something and new environment.

I tend to be careful with money, so I won’t experience much loss.

I have extremely strong likes and dislikes of people. I have lots of friends, but at the same time I can create lots of enemies too. I may exhibit extraordinary talent as a scholar or an entertainer. 🙂

Who is Bramantio Prastyaji ???

Desember 15, 2009

Bramantio Prastyaji is a creator of this blog.

nobody would know the meaning of the name of “bramantio prastyaji” !!


there are two meanings of this name..

he can be called “aji” in everyday life !!

first, based on (

– Perfection and the good
– Forgiveness and freedom
– Firmness and wisdom
– Affect the power
– Like science, and the thirst for useful knowledge
– It works well, smart and lucky
– Spiritual (Fine, diligent prayer, and good manners)
– Fun
– Ambitious / love / passionate pursuit of honor
– The nature gracious and compassionate

second, based on my parents saying that love their sons..

Aji in Javanese language means “aji-aji”, which means magic in many ways. With this naming, the parents wanted to wish his son to be a good person, both the world and the Hereafter, a clever in thinking and doing, benefit the nation and homeland, family, and GOD.
From these names, can be interpreted as Aji greatness, which can act responsibly, and courteous in speech.